An Advanced Relationship Immersive | Ontodelic Relationality for Couples
2025 is a pivotal year for many couples—one where intentional, conscious love can lead to breakthroughs not only in your relationship but in your life purpose, your family, and your leadership in the world.
Through this Soul Path Offering, you’ll receive the guidance, resources, and container to step boldly into a love that continuously grows and inspires.
Welcome to SACRED PARTNERSHIP,
A transformative 6-month live, experiential mentorship designed for couples to activate and embody their relational soul path, Sacred Partnership guides you through deep self-insight and relationship discovery in private couple’s sessions along with an additional small online cohort and community of practice.
In this sacred container, you and your partner will embark on a journey of self-mastery and shared purpose, diving into the hidden layers of your emotional, psychological, and spiritual connection. Together, you'll uncover new dimensions of love, compassion, and self-awareness, internalizing the essential frameworks for lasting intimacy and trust, while learning to communicate with attunement and authenticity.
Whether you seek to strengthen your bond, cultivate shared tools for ever-deepening connection in your life together, or elevate your partnership to new soulful heights, this mentorship provides the embodied skills, insights, and sustained practices to create a love that continuously evolves and empowers you both to step more fully into your higher calling.
Common issues for many couples include:
Communication and negotiation
Personal and relational boundaries
Differentiation and individuation
Unmet needs
Wanting to build a strong foundation
Feeling neglected or smothered by a partner
Wounded power dynamics of one-upping and one-downing.
Needing a shared language + skillsets
Navigating the underlying dynamics of walled-off or boundaryless interactions
Trauma + wounding
Sexual connection
Triggered by a partner's behavior that doesn't seem to change
Feeling disconnected or emotionally numb to the relationship.
Cyclical conflicts
Power struggles
Worldview
What this journey will bring into your relationship and life:
The clarity to be able to see beneath the surface, identify and tangibly discover your core patterns together (Transformative!)
More feelings of being deeply seen and understood.
The self-clarity that opens relating with deeper curiosity, accessibility, and responsiveness.
The safety + stability of compassionately understanding the deepest emotions within you + your partner’s system
The disarming power of speaking vulnerably from and to each other’s core wound with skillfulness and care.
Titrating conflict in conversations.
Navigating boundaries in a deeper way
Specific ways of relating and skillsets that are tailored for you and your partner.
Greater awareness
Deep healing
Accessing your true nature and responding from that place in our core
Skillsets you will practice + embody:
Compassionately working with + clarifying each of your deepest patterns and learning to communicate from them and to your partner’s.
Practicing with onesself and communicating with vulnerability, accessibility, openness, and responsiveness with your deepest emotions/triggers.
How to acknowledge and contact your partner’s experience and emotions as well as your own, even in challenging times.
Curiosity over defense.
Keys for navigating conflicts in transformative ways. Sustaining presence during difficult emotions and energies
Self-regulation and co-regulation
Transforming the causal memories underlying emotions for yourself and your partner.
Becoming a team in conscious exploration and communication of what’s happening right now inside us.
Apologies, requests, bringing things up, loving boundaries, agreements, making repair, stitching and integration.
Tracking stages and phases of growth, telling the story wisely of your journey together, the skillset of accurately tracking, praising + celebrating at key moments.
An Aim Towards Relational Experience
Many courses teach to the neck up, leaving you with insights and frameworks to apply. They say ‘Knowledge is Power’ but it actually isn’t power until it’s applied. We want to support you to explore + experience embodying the key new skillsets, new interactions, and new ways of being. Every day will be pivotally oriented around the experientials: explorations, practices, and inquiries into the body, emotions, and relational interactions within the couple and in the group.
✦ 12 Private 90 min Couples Sessions (2 per month)
✦ 6 Monthly Group Experiential Mastery Circles
Singles and Couples are welcome regardless of race, sexual orientation, gender identity, age, or religion. We will meet with couples and individuals for an initial call to meet and explore more and see if Sacred Partnership is a good fit.
Issues may range from a good relationship looking to become even richer and more vital or a relationship stuck in negative cycles.
Facing the waves of life, the relationship is one of our deepest learning grounds. It is a sacred reflection of where we are. It is a catalyst for self-awareness.
We will create a safe, confidential container to support you as a couple and as individuals.
In a loving container, we will facilitate you to get to know yourself and your partner in your deepest relational wounds and gifts, and de-shame the patterns that we all face. With ample guidance and support,
You will practice and embody the ability to navigate deep triggers, with our *Trigger Transformation Method open compassionate resources within.
The result will be that you’re more open + responsive, accessible and vulnerable. You will also receive key practices to take home and explore with
Our Ontodelic approach is informed by cumulative years of experience offering therapy and draws on an array of approaches.
As the time unfolds both in and in between sessions, transformation is deepened with the loving support of your partner, your peers and the energetic container. You will gain clarity and realise your resources as a couple and as individuals, strengthen your communication skills, and heal any relationship hurts.
By the end of this program, you and your partner will navigate challenges with grace, communicate with deeper understanding, and support each other’s growth.
You’ll grow in joy and intimacy on all levels, turning your relationship into a source of mutual healing and deeper connection.
you will have a completely re-orchestrated understanding (of self and other and how to respond in conflict.
You’ll have a well practiced skillset that lays the foundation for a higher level of flow, connection, wisdom, and ease amidst the challenges of life.
We see this course as opening new doors of what’s possible for each couple and person who attends.
We’re excited to walk this journey with you, supporting you as you unlock the next chapter and stage of your love story—one of deeper connection, love, and a more meaningful shared purpose.
What makes this highly experiential immersive unique?
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The Power of Depth Psychology Maps | A Life-alterring Shift in Self-Awareness
An integral part of our couples' work is Ontodelic Inquiry, an approach we developed through our personal and professional journeys. Rooted in a rich blend of practices—including Somatic therapy, Energy medicine, IFS, Reichian patterns, NLP, Bioenergetics, Integrative Hypnotherapy, traditional shamanism, and inspired by frameworks like Integral theory, the Stages model, Hermeticism, and the perennial wisdom of sages throughout history —Ontodelic Inquiry combines these insights to create a truly transformative approach for solo practice, relationship practice, and professional facilitators. It’s a synthesis of diverse wisdoms designed to unlock the deepest layers of growth and connection and unfolding of being.
This approach bridges the gap between the conscious mind, where we typically operate (the prefrontal cortex), and the subconscious, rooted in the brainstem, where deep behavioral patterns are stored. Just as we learned to walk or drive until it became automatic, our core emotional patterns—formed early to meet our needs—now run beneath the surface, guiding much of our behavior.
Through this work, we access these subconscious layers and begin the process of rewiring them, creating lasting transformation. As the sessions and work deepens using mindful awareness, they operate like a kind of medicine journey, much like psychedelic therapy, where entheogens and empathogens help shift these same deep, ingrained patterns in the brain and psyche. Both modalities work on the same principle of shifting us into the brainstem and unlocking and reconditioning these automatic responses, facilitating profound healing and growth.
In ‘Sacred Partnership’, couples enter a supportive space that, using the wisdom of Ontodelic Inquiry, bridges the gap between the conscious mind and the subconscious embodied patterns. This transformative approach empowers partners to rewire old patterns, deepen their emotional and spiritual connection, and cultivate a relationship rooted in continuous growth.
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Becoming More Open + Responsive | Deepening into Accessibility + Vulnerability
We will consistently practice with couples new ways of being together, communicating, and listening.
This isn’t just listening to listen. It’s using the lenses of understanding our partner’s core experience (their patterns formed in childhood). It’s a deeper way of listening and its very intimate and connective.
In this way, couples can slow down, learn to identify and have space to really learn what’s deep down: emotions + sensations + memories real-time.
There is a curiosity and openness.
This is a disarming peace offering and awareness during conflicts and a sense of knowing eachother’s deepest terrain, trust and intimacy available in daily life.
Our many embodied practices will increase accessibility, vulnerability, openness, de-shaming, decreasing reactivity, and increasing intimate emotional responsiveness.
We will also practice with communicating specific needs of your own and your partner’s core pattern, and learn how to truly honour those needs in relationship to the highest truths of wholeness and Love.
You will have an opportunity to practice working together in creating supportive impromptu containers for intimate sharing and healing.
The Energetic Support of the Group Relational Field
As you set your North Star in the first session, this is the beginning of a confidential holding field of deep energetic support, a felt presence. You’ll step into a container through a practice that will be an energetic catalyst to support your intentions for your relationship yourselves and the 3rd entity that is the purpose of your union. You will recieve a blessing as well that will support carry your prayer. This creates a pulsating field of nourishment, resilience, and gifts.
Self-esteem and Relationship-esteem: Tracking Growth Journeys in Self and Relationship
We can enhance the well-deserved esteem and confidence of ourselves and the couple as a whole. In this, we practice to track the phases, steps, challenges, successes, and stages of the relationship. It’s tracking and telling your story accurately and wisely.
The North Star ceremony will bolster + honor the fortitude it takes as a couple to grow together. In this course, you will access deep life-changing awarenesses, track the mini-changes, acknowledge and celebrate the actual shifts, watering the greater journey you’re on together.
The Symbolic Power of Psychomagic + Ritual
The unconscious understands very deeply prayer, incantation, and ritual.
Just as the unconscious accepts placebos, it accepts metaphorical acts.
In fact, it takes a symbolic act as a fact.
This adds to the depth of each couple’s transformation by working with the deep symbolic language of life and objects that relate deeply to your soul and shared soul.
SACRED PARTNERSHIP
6-Node Framework
A Dynamic Curriculum for your Custom journey.
This cycle unfolds in repeated mini-cycles (within sessions) and meta-cycles (as the session arc) throughout your 6 months.
Details within the days may evolve marginally from what’s listed.
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During this session, we will create a safe and reverent space to hear your intentions as individuals and as a couple, to identify the shifts you're hoping to experience, & feel into the possibilities.
During the session, we'll assess your biggest challenge, take a relationship inventory and a some insightful and meaningful implementations that will support you both.
If it feels right, we can move forward with a plan so that you can deepen your understandings, deepen your connection, strengthen your ability to step out of frustration and fear, and connect with your partner from your authenticity and highest expression of love and truth..
We will integrate, take time to answer your questions and see if working together is the right fit.
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In the 1st node, We're going to meet you where you are, identify your dynamics, your resources, and set a powerful new North Star for your relationship. Through guided experiments and self-investigation in our sessions, you’ll immediately begin to resolve conflicts, transform the way you see yourself and eachother, and transform how you relate SO THAT YOU start to experience the empowerment and new connection together.
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2nd node, we’ll explore the
Tracking and navigating the subconscious depths within yourself and each other.
Explorative containers—first individually, then together
Responsive communication and the
3 levels of emotional intelligence.
This journey will allow you to discover a profound new depth of empathy, intimacy, and self-awareness, and deepen your connection with each other.
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In the 3rd node, we’ll guide you on a deep dive into the unconscious, helping you feel and identify in your body the early childhood patterns that shape your behavior. Through the 6 Core Patterns, you’ll not only learn but actively engage in meeting the missing experiences from your past. Like deep-sea diving, this work brings the hidden to the surface, allowing you to reparent your deepest emotions and liberate yourself from the blocks and beliefs that have held you back.
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In the 4th node, we’ll equip you with advanced communication and conflict-resolution practices that work with the hidden dynamics of the unconscious. Through frameworks for advanced dialogue, navigating needs, boundaries, agreements, requests, making repair, apologies, and collaborative negotiation, you’ll engage deeply with these skills. This transformative work will allow you to master the art of turning conflict into connection, while learning to express your full truth in a way that honors both you and your partner.
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In the 5th node, we’ll guide you in becoming true refuges for each other. Here, lifelong defenses ease, the heart naturally de-armors with healing. You’ll experience embodiment practices so that you can expand your nervous systems capacity for full expression, unlocking deeper devotion, empathic presence, & courageous love so you can magnetically embody the qualities you wish to bring forth. You’ll be grounding your insights of sacred partnership into your body-both emotionally and physically.
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In the final node, we’ll harvest and celebrate the profound vibrational shifts and the new life stage you’ve stepped into through this work. Together, we’ll affirm the core insights, growth, and transformations you’ve experienced, and design your highest 'What's Next?' plan. This will empower you to confidently shed the old, fully embrace your new inspired path, and move forward together with clarity and purpose.
Program Structure, Components & Schedule Overview:
Over these 25 weeks you will receive:
Opening Orientation Retreat Day:
A focused retreat called Aligning Your North Star to jumpstart your journey before the program officially begins. (Approx 4 hrs)
12 Private Couples Sessions:
Private sessions (90 min each) with Antonia and Roger tailored to your needs and current priorities.
Homework and Practices:
Between sessions, you’ll receive homework and key practices to integrate into your week and establish supportive habits.
6 Mastery Circles- Group Training Session and Practice Lab (2.5-3hrs):
This rhythm creates a balanced flow of experiential learning, deep practice, and restorative time to embody and integrate the teachings.
Mini-Practice Videos & Video Courses:
Access exclusive video with bite-sized practices and video courses on key frameworks including:
✦ 6 Core Patterns
✦ 3 levels of Emotional Intelligence
✦ Explorative containers
✦ Advanced dialogue, navigating needs, boundaries, agreements, apologies, & collaborative negotiation.
Closing Integration Retreat Day:
The program concludes with a (4hrs) Retreat to integrate, harvest, celebrate, and support your next steps in The Harvest & Future Path. At this point, you will embody a new stage of your emotional lives and path together.
Session Recordings:
All sessions will be recorded, giving you unlimited access to revisit and activate new levels of understanding at your convenience.
Exclusive Consumption List:
A curated collection of transformation podcasts, videos, and books to further your insights and support your practices throughout the program.
Thriving in Community:
Experience the support of a like-minded couples’ community where you can grow, witness, and hold space for each other’s insights, courage, and depth.
Link to:
SACRED PARTNERSHIP 6-MONTH MASTERY CIRCLE SCHEDULE CALENDAR
(Some dates and details may slightly shift as January approaches)
Keep in mind, this is not a monthly membership. It’s a 6-month journey and commitment designed to run from beginning to end, guiding you both through a transformative experience.
“Relationship is a mirror. Every moment the other can be a window that reveals you, exposes you. The closer the relationship, the clearer is the mirror.”
Meet your Guides Antonia + Roger
As a fellow couple committed to growth, we are passionate about relationships and relationship as a vehicle of growth. We are honored and excited to guide and share the space with you, diving into the deeply rewarding journey of this retreat, the explorations and discoveries, and the real-time intimacy and tracking. We are here to support each couple in their unique experience. We look forward to growing alongside you as the group genius of this living container brings forth healing, empowerment, and gems for us all,
We both have our own private practice and work with couples one-on-one as well as couples therapy. When a couple wants to dive in deeply, we offer an immersive opportunity where we both work them for 1-5 days in a transformative couples retreat.
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Antonia is an intuitive energy healer and guide. She walks through your worlds with you with exceptional safety and security throughout your paradigm shifts, holding you with love, compassion, grace and skill in becoming realized in your Divine expression, supporting you in living through your heart’s intuition, and guideing you towards embodying your innate essence.
Through her trauma informed understanding that nonverbal expression reveals more than our verbal stories can ever tell about the core material that organizes our experiences, she works with the body as a direct route to the unconscious.
Antonia has a profound adeptness and deftness in working with the body, self and soul on all levels, and in the multidimensional field. Through through the wisdom of the body, and setting up experiments in mindfulness, we can an invoke the psychedelic experience without the psychedelics.
Between co-regulation and self regulation, deep full body listening & awareness, Antonia supports your self healing by evoking and midwifing you through your body and soul's natural, healing processes and through re-consolidating formative experiences using the relational space and sometimes, support from others, including comforting touch.
Antonia has been practicing, and facilitating deep meditation journeys for 22 years, using various modalities.
She leads a yearlong immersive training, theRainbowBridges.com to support therapists, healers, bodyworkers, leaders, change agents, guides and facilitators.
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Roger is a somatic therapist, awakening + embodiment guide, and facilitator of transformational journeys. 17 years ago, inspired by an awakening, he committed himself to a lifelong path of rubber-meets-the-road growth and sharing it with others along the way.In his session-work, the transformative power is in the catalyzing field of co-regulated presence. You can start with anything in your life that is alive for you right now. The present moment is the starting place, and looking deeply is the journey. The body and emotions are deeply affected by the shared inquiry process, as the deeper body awakens, purges, heals, and reveals its histories and secrets. Together, he navigates with you in a safe, deep and compassionate process towards naturally emergent discoveries that pivotally change one’s inner-outer experience.
Roger has been practicing + facilitating deep journeys and gatherings for over a decade, using various modalities.
Hear what people are saying:
“Learning from a master is such an incredible privilege, and Antonia is a true master. She has such an impressive breadth of knowledge and wisdom. Every lecture, every question answered and every live session was vibrant and yielded so much learning on my part.
I am beyond grateful to have had access to her both a teacher and a healer.
— Jeni Wishmeyer
“Roger is a master tracker - among the finest of minds. Yet he’s soft. There’s a patient heart to this man that naturally opens the paths of insight within me. Bountiful kudos are owed to him for facilitating a process that is as disarming and gentle as it is incisive, deep, and clear.”
— Award-winning Film Director Emmett Brennan ('Inhabit: A Permaculture Perspective', 'Reflection: A Walk with Water')
FAQ
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A: Nope, we will provide video lessons on the backend for you so that you can learn about the 6 Core Patterns and the rest is experiential. Come as you are with your hear’s intentions.
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A: Our pricing structure has two payment options in addition to the regular fee. For those who need help, we offer a reduced tuition option, and for those who are able to help, we offer the chance to add a “Pay It Forward” addition to regular tuition, with those additions going directly to provide scholarship opportunities for others. Our pricing is below.
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A: First, I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to explore support, especially when the relationship feels like it’s in a challenging place. Sacred Partnership is designed to guide couples into deeper understanding, connection, and transformation—so yes, it can absolutely support relationships that are struggling.
That said, Sacred Partnership works best when both people are ready to engage fully, to explore not just the relationship dynamics but also their own individual patterns, emotions, and growth edges. This container is not about “fixing” the relationship but about creating a space where both of you can connect with your truth, navigate your challenges, and cultivate the tools needed for a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.
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A: Sacred Partnership complements individual work beautifully because it focuses on the dynamic space between you and your partner, while also encouraging each of you to continue your personal growth.
Individual therapy tends to focus on your inner world—your history, emotions, and patterns. Sacred Partnership takes that deeper understanding and applies it to the relational space, helping you and your partner uncover subconscious dynamics, develop emotional intelligence, and create new ways of relating that foster deeper connection and intimacy.
This work expands the lens, allowing you to bring what you’re learning individually into a shared space for growth. If you and your partner are both ready to engage in this kind of exploration, it can be a powerful complement to the work you’re already doing on your own.
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A: Then joining the group mastery circle 1x per month will require some courage on your part but, rest assured, the group will be a truly supportive atmosphere and a confidential safe atmosphere to grow together. You will mostly be exploring with your partner and then coming back to share insights ask questions and receive support. will be a very safe and supportive container
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A: Recordings will be available of the sessions. Even if you miss one or two groups you will still benefit. Though if you know in advance you’ll miss multiple sessions, understand that you will miss out on the deep experiential benefit of the container.
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A: Some new members may join late, but generally it will be the same people the whole time. we keep each mastery circles small and intimate.
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A: This is for couples but Antonia has another mentorship for Singles calling in Sacred Partnership Called Acorn to oak You can find that on www.illuminateyourtruth.com
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A: Yes, it is In-person
Retreat will be an option available to participants who completed the Sacred Partnership. Hosted at a beautiful location in the Berkshires for 3 nights and 4 days (delicious organic meals and rooms provided), this retreat will be a way of meeting up together to share in the beauty of transformation, journeywork, and the natural world. Due to limited spaces, the first 5 couples who commit will secure their spot. For more Retreat details, schedule and more information, click here.
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A: we offer a variety of options, including a pay-per-month plan and opportunities for savings.
We’d love to invite you to a Connection Breakthrough Session, where we can explore your unique needs and how this training aligns with your goals. During this session, we’ll also provide clarity on the investment and payment options available.
This is a beautiful opportunity to connect, ask questions, and determine whether this journey feels like the right fit for you. Let us know if you'd like to schedule a time—we’d be honored to guide you in taking the next step.
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A: Sacred Partnership is a deeply immersive container, and by enrolling, you’re committing to the full 6-month journey, both energetically and financially. As outlined in our agreement, the program is non-refundable, even in cases of withdrawal or absence.
This policy is in place because we create this space with intention and structure, and the resources, preparation, and energy we pour into each couple begin long before the official start date. Your commitment also allows us to hold the container with integrity and consistency for everyone involved.
That said, we are deeply invested in your growth and success. If challenges arise during the program, we’re here to support you and encourage open communication so that we can navigate those moments together.
We’re honored to walk this journey with you and are confident that your full participation will bring meaningful transformation.
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A: If you have any questions, requests, or considerations about signing up for the course OR during the course, you can reach out & we will assist you: rogervanoro@gmail.com
Co-create a relationship that not only enriches your connection but aligns with your highest potential.
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Accelerated Growth
This 6-month timeline will accelerate progress + deeply evolve your well of wisdom & connection. The combination of education with therapy in a focused private & group container is a powerful catalyst.
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48+ Hours, Custom & Interactive
There is ample interactive and experiential time to meet the unique needs of each couple and individual. + video lessons and material you can take in on your own time.
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12 Private Couples Sessions Twice a Month
For participating couples after the intake call, we will schedule all of your private sessions and we i’ll also give you access to a consumption list with embodiment practices to explore in between if you’d like.
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Extracurricular étude
Optional practices for couples to explore between our meet-ups.
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Live Monthly Group Mastery Circles
Opportunities to recieve insights and education and also embodiment practices + opportunities for Q&A + counsel through voluntary demo work in the supporting field of the group.
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Deep Resources.
Unlocking experiences deep parts of us have longed for. Fills life with new wonders, intimacy, and adventures of possibility.
Equivalent 30 hrs of Relationship Therapy vs. Private Relationship Retreat vs. Sacred Partnership 6 Month Mentorship
Are you ready to take the shared journey in Sacred Partnership?
To make this 6 month-long Mentorship accessible to our community, we offer two payment options in addition to the regular fee. For those who need help, we offer a reduced tuition option, and for those who are able to help, we offer the chance to add a “Pay It Forward” addition to regular tuition, with those additions going directly to provide scholarship opportunities for others.
Registration Open Now:
To ensure an intimate and personalized experience, we are limiting registration to a capacity of 16 couples
By intentionally keeping the event intimate, we aim to create a space where individuals can feel seen, heard, and supported. This environment encourages meaningful exchanges of insights and wisdom.